Staying in messy diaper (2025)

I started out with bladder incontinence and after a while of having to wear diapers I have become mostly bowel incontinent also . I usually only mess one time per day and when I do it’s usually a big one , and most of the time I can’t catch it happening in enough time to get to bathroom . Problem is is that I try to limit my self on the amount of diapers I go through in a day , and I really like to go to sleep in a clean diaper . And lately I have been having a big messy accident about 2-3 hours before bedtime. The last couple days Iv stayed in a messy diaper for 2-3 hours just so I didn’t waste another diaper and could still go to sleep clean . Anyone else have this issue ?

Less then 30 min in a messy diaper for me never more then an hour. and I have cast iron skin for wet diaper

I am more than likely in the minority on this subject. I am not incontinent, but thoroughly enjoy a wet and messy diaper. Ninety-five percent of the time I mess my already wet diaper very soon after I get up in the early morning. So, before bed I make sure that I place some Vaseline and Parent Choice Baby Lotion in all the right places because I like to enjoy the emotional and tactile sensations of my wet and poopy diaper for several hours, sometimes as long as 3-4 hours before I change. By using Vaseline and baby lotion I have avoided irritation and diaper rash. If, however, the mess spreads to the front of my diaper I change right away to avoid a UTI.

I'm in messy diapers overnight frequently. I love messy diapers, whether firm or soft. I only change my diapers when they start to leak.

I am primarily FI . with bladder urgency due to almost constant UTI's . my Dr put it in clear understanding saying "when you constantly drag
you unit through the mud there is bound to be UTI's" .those where his words . that being said. I tend to change FI briefs almost immediately or as soon as practical if out and about at the time. having had skin breakdowns too many times to mention and spending a ton of money on Cavilon swabs/creams and sage wipes, getting that off of me at the soonest is best. surgical options for FI are probably sooner than later in the future .,

Sometimes I do mess my diaper in my sleep. But most of the time I mess my diaper after I get up before my morning change.

I don't mess very often but when I do I tend to stay in them for several hours. I enjoy feeling my mess around me and since I don't do it often, I like to enjoy the feelings.

its not exactly the same circumstances but i like to stay in my full diapers just for a little bit, i just like the feeling

I absolutely hated staying in my messy diapers at first but now I have got used to it . It’s not as much of a big deal now for me to stay in a messy diaper for 3 or 4 hours . I just have to worry about the smell when I’m in public because I have became immune to the smell and I don’t notice it so it’s hard for me to judge when other people might . But as far as just having to be in a messy diaper for a while , I’m a lot better about it now . Thanks for everyone’s input

I’m both urinary and bowel IC for which I’m 24/7 diapered, primarily in cloth contour diapers. After a bowel movement I generally don’t change until my diaper is soaked. As for my member being “dragged through the mud” I use a folded terry hand towel for a liner which isolates what’s in back from what’s in front. When wearing a disposable I change as soon as practically possible as they don’t provide this isolation. If you don’t change immediately after messing you may find zinc oxide ointment in the intergluteal cleft, and surrounding area beneficial to prevent diaper rash.

I stay in my messy diaper for as long as I can. When my diaper leaks from being full I will often sit on the closed toilet lid, squish the poop realy good, than carefully remove the wet diaper retaining as much poop stuck to me as possible, than put on a fresh dry diaper, this way I get to wear my poop for another few hours.

Not incontinent here, but I would enjoy being in a messy diaper.
Just make sure to use baby powder or body lotion